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The Soulmate Within with Shakti Malan & Aaron Swanson

September 20, 2014 @ 10:00 am - September 21, 2014 @ 5:00 pm


How meeting the inner beloved awakens outer relationship

In our collective psyches the dream of finding the Soulmate moves strongly – that ‘other’ who will meet and fulfill me completely. There is a real soulmate for each one of us. But that person is inside. Inside ourselves we are both masculine and feminine. The lovers and loved ones that cross our paths are our mirrors for where we are in the inner relationship between male and female. They can also be a rich fulfillment – and embodiment – of our inner Soulmate.

The split between masculine and feminine in us is a primary polarity. A central aim of Tantra is the integration of this polarity. With that comes an experience of who you really are, in all your rich diversity. Paradoxically, as we embrace our inner Soulmate, a new fruitfulness becomes possible in our outer relationships.

This is a course that Shakti has run for many years and that has profoundly impacted on people’s lives. As Shakti works with this material, her understanding deepens and more dimensions get added to the work.

Aim 1: Owning projections

The significant men or women in our lives are important mirrors for us of our other side; our masculine side if we are in women’s bodies, and our feminine side if we are in men’s bodies. What we have not consciously come to accept in ourselves, we unconsciously project out on to others. Owning projections and accepting their gifts can be one of the most liberating, enlivening experiences of your lives.

Aim 2: Meeting your Soulmate

It is possible to get intimately acquainted with your inner Soulmate. This inner meeting can bring great clarity and evolution to our relationships, especially sexual partnerships. Because the true resolution of relationship impasses comes from inside, this work is often the only way to take a sexual partnership to the next level.

Aim 3: Sex and the Soulmate

This aspect of the course will give you an understanding and lived experience of
• The unconscious energetics that get set up in sexual relationship
• Methods for realigning your sexual energy
• What high-level masculine and feminine expression in sexual partnership looks and feels like.

What will we do:

– Gestalt dialogue work
– BlissDance
– Subtle movement and breath work

Who is this course for?

This course is for all who are willing to commit to a Tantric journey of deep transformation. Transformation here means that your cherished concepts about love may be brought to into question, and old energy structures that no longer serve you may fall away. For the ego, this can feel like death or extreme disruption. Mostly however, the shifts feel much more gracious and subtle. Although we will be working with realigning sexual energy, there is nothing overtly sexual in the way this material is taught.

When: September 20 – September 21, 10am – 5pm both days
Where: Clerkenwellbeing Centre, 178 Goswell Road, London EC1V 7DT, United Kingdom
Cost: £180 Early-Bird until September 14, £250 after September 14
A deposit of £50 will secure your place.

For more information please contact Meera meera@onlyforart.com

About Shakti Malan (Ph.D) and Aaron Swanson

Shakti Malan (Ph.D.) is South African born and has an extensive international practice as facilitator of conscious sexuality. She is author of Sexual Awakening for Women and does extensive work with women on the awakening of the unique qualities of feminine sexual essence. Aaron Swanson has a business in California, and has dedicated his life to the quest for awakening and the cultivation of the masculine principle of consciousness. Aaron and Shakti have been in relationship for the past 3 years and have taught together in South Africa, England and California. Their sexual relationship is a deep exploration of sexual awakening in the coming together of man and woman.

Venue Clerkenwellbeing
Address 178 Goswell Road, London
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September 20, 2014 @ 10:00 am
September 21, 2014 @ 5:00 pm
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